You find it? The feeling of love is always sweet in the beginning, always felt more than a stay, one more person to help you share, you finally no longer alone, because at least one person thinking of you, you Lianzhao , as long as we can be together is good.
but slowly, with the deepening of understanding, you begin to discover each other's shortcomings, so the problem one after another, you start trouble, tired, or even want to escape, it was That love is like picking up stones, always want to pick up a suitable, but you know when and how it can be picked up? her (him) for you, then you and for her (him) up?
fact, Dan Zier love should be like a mill, perhaps just picked up, you are not quite satisfied, but remember, people are resilient, many things can be changed as long as you determination, courage, and their pick unknown everywhere stone, not as to what we already have a stone polished finish, you start to wear it? lot of people think, because the feelings faded, people would become lazy, in fact, were the first to be overcome inertia, emotional changes slowly pale.
at a dinner occasion, it was suggested to eat more shrimp on the body good, this time there is a middle-aged man suddenly said: said to eat them, I peel a lot only to her. Now, if she wants me to help her peel shrimp, is simply a joke, I did not even help her interest in their food, and also peeling shrimp do. More and more people want to talk about a lifetime of love, has refused to marriage. because, marriage easy to become lazy.
If everyone lazy speech, listening lazy, lazy, manufacturing surprise, gentle lazy, then between husband and wife, how would not drift apart gradually silent it? So remember, love is the dynamic needs of hospitality appropriate to irrigate, and love, is not lazy .
have a couple, similar to dinner after work, shopping, but the girl was delayed because the company something, when she was late when the rain arrived half an hour, her boyfriend was angry and said: every case, what I feel is not, and Why every time I wait for you ah! br> Also, in the same place, another couple is facing the same situation, when the girl arrived late for half an hour, her boyfriend said: ; Then he wiped his face rain for girls, and took off his jacket put to the girl, at the moment, the girl in tears, she flowed with tears of happiness.
you feel it? In fact, often only love and hate In one of our idea! love not only tolerance but also to understand the time and many things may just change that fills your heart. If a man love you, and you also feel that he (she) Yes, it does not mean you will choose his (her).
We always said: could not answer him (her), because you do not know.
Yes, we always thought that we would love to find a man she loved. But later, when we suddenly look back and realized how he had been naive. if never started, how do you know she will love love that person? In fact, love the feeling, is to experience a lot of things together until after the discovery. Everyone hopes to find your best partner in mind, but you have not thought about someone by your side as early as you pay for a long time in silence, but you do not find it.
So, is a careful look at the people around you, he ( she) may have been waiting for you for a long time. When you love someone, love to just eight good. All the expectations and hopes are only Qi Bafen, and the remaining two or three points to love yourself. If you continue to love more, are likely to result in heavy pressure on the other side, so that each breath, completely lost the love of fun.
So remember, drink no more than six drunk, eat no more than seven full, love a person no more than eight. If you are confused for love, the following passage may be able to give you some inspiration: love a man to understand but also open solution; to apologize also thanks; to admit also error correction; to be considerate have understanding; is to accept and not stand; is tolerant and not condoned; is to support, not dominate; is sympathy, not questioned; is talk, not a complaint; is memorable but not forgotten; is communicate with each other and not explain everything; is silently pray for each other rather than to each other a lot of requirements. can be romantic, but do not waste, it should not hold hands, but it should not let go.
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